Hey guys welcome to this blog post in this blog post I am going to be talking to you guys about having confidence in yourself and your abilities.
I have read tones of bloggers posts because I just love reading people’s blog posts and I love creating blog posts as well. But lately I have been reading some people’s blog posts which are about how to start your own blog. And although I saw lots of positive comments on these people’s posts, comments like I am so inspired, I’ll start or, I have been wanting to start blogging for a while and this has given me the final push I needed and I am now going to start one. And I read through these comments and thought wow this blogger should be really happy that they are influencing so many people and they should be proud. And they should be proud, but I also saw comments saying things like I would start but I am worried people will judge me, or I am worried what people will think, or even what if my friends don’t like me if I blog?. It’s the same with a lot of other social media platforms as well.
I think this is actually really sad because if you want to start something that will make you genuinely happy, you should do it and you shouldn’t care about what other people think. However that is a really hard thing to do, it is a humans natural instinct to care about what other humans around them think. But if you want to start something you should do it, try as hard as you possibly can to push away the negative thoughts because a lot of the time most people are supportive and if they aren’t then they are not nice people and you shouldn’t be worrying about their opinion because they are irrelevant . One of the comments I saw said , what if my friends don’t like me if I blog?. If your friends don’t like you because of something you do which makes you happy then they are not really your friends. I know it might be hard to accept that, but a proper friend is a friend who will stick with you through thick and thin, a proper friend is a friend who will support you in what you do, not try to break down your walls and make you feel like you are lesser because you are doing something that makes you happy.
When you think about it properly you blogging is not hurting anyone, so if it’s not hurting anyone then you are not doing anything wrong, so you have no reason to feel bad. Also, although this should not be the reason you are doing it, so many different people blog these days. There are so many different types of blogs out there and so much content to explore. If you actually do have a friend who is judging you or making you feel bad because you blog, do YouTube etcetera then you should try to introduce it to them and explain to it. Because although it hasn’t ever happened to me by a friend, they might just not understand and if you explain it to them maybe they will have a more open mind and then they will hopefully support you on your blogging journey.
But if you have tried to explain to them about what you do and why you do it, and they are still putting you down because of it then you need to cut them out because they are most likely a fake friend, and you are in a toxic relationship. Cut them out !!!, I know it’s frightening and quite a hard thing to do. And although I didn’t do it the times I have done it because of them judging me because of my blog, I have cut people out of my life completely, and trust me you feel so much better after you have done it.
Believe in yourself do what you want and go for your dreams because you can achieve lots of things if you just believe in yourself.
Hope you guys really enjoyed this blog post
Kayleigh 🙂 🙂 🙂